Police crime prevention program of the federal states and the federal government
Every child has the right to a non-violent upbringing
Fathers and mothers want to be good parents to their children, give them attention, encourage and protect them. Of course there are arguments between parents, but children should experience parents arguing and making up again. In some families, arguments lead to violence. Most children who witness domestic violence are ashamed of their parents' behavior. This makes it difficult for them to confide in someone. In addition, they are often under enormous pressure because they have to take on tasks that the victim is no longer up to. Children are overwhelmed by this. If they get involved in the argument, they can put themselves in danger. Children feel guilty for what happens at home. It must be made clear to them that they are not responsible for their parents' behavior. They are guided by the example set by their parents. If they experience violence, it becomes the norm. They learn that violence to enforce their own interests is "normal". They do not learn that there are also positive behavioral alternatives in conflict situations. In adulthood, these children often repeat what they have experienced, i.e. the use or toleration of violence. Children therefore need qualified support in overcoming their experiences of violence. This is provided, for example, by specialist counseling in youth welfare offices, by educators in women's shelters and/or special offers from trauma centers for children and adolescents.